I got kinda- pissed off with a friend of mine yesterday.
He borrowed my phone and asked if he can text someone. Of course, I said yes. And then whoever the person he texted tried calling twice. Well, miss-call maybe (the Filipino term for it) since I think s/he does not intend to really call since it cuts off after 2 vibra.
I accidentally read the reply of a person named Joan asking my married guy friend that she is already at the house and is waiting for his call. I know I have bno business or whatever to interfere. But I sure do know that his wife's name is not Joan..
So here comes the uh-oh. I told him that the person was trying to call. He borrowed my phone again and had the nerve to ask me if it is okay if he can use my phone. so I said okay, and with a subtle expression asked who was that.. He just mentioned that it is his "karbarkada". (kabarkada my ass!)
Turned out that the person di not call, he gave me my phone back and made bilin to inform him if there will be a text or call from that person (uhm, excuse me? do I look like a yaya?). The stupid girl kept on calling for 10x yesterday, sending messages like she was waiting for him to be the one to call. Even if it was bad, I made deadma. And did not inform my friend again of the missed calls or the SMS's.
Hunny taught me how to reject the call and block the messages. But before I was able to do that, another message arrived that has something to do with them meeting up 530 AM at Mcdonald's Libis. Again - deadma. When I woke up 6am, I saw 4 rejected calls from that number.
My POV - I treat my friends as friends. I think I am a fairly good friend, loyal as well. But I never tolerate infidelity. One can never find an alliance from me when it comes to "trust within the relationship issues". The nerve of him to use me and my phone. The guts of that stupid girl to make kulit though she knows that the number he used was not his! For God's sake, he just got married last February! And he even had the confidence to tell us at lunch that this is his 3rd month being married to his wife!!!!! (argghhh)
Aside from infidelity, I hate flirts. Especially those girls who tries to flirt with guys whom they know has girlfriends. There is this silly girl who is obviously flirting with Hunny. I kinda have this rule.. 3 strikes - and you are out.. Parang baseball lang. She already has pissed me off way big time before. And then now, she has done it again. One na lang talaga, am not going to make pigil anymore. With the advise of my guy friends - she was really making hints.. so she just need to wait, one more na lang.
But I may change my mind. Because the more I think about what she said, the more I wanted to inform her.. Kinda refresh her memory that whatever her insinuations may be, she might want to try it to somebody else but not to what is mine.
